sunshine asked:


my boyfriend who is 27 years old and i were fighting. he called me a b*tch. he told me to shut the fu*k up and i’m fu*king annoying. i told him never to say those things to me and he said everyone curses when they’re mad and he said i deserved to be called that at that moment. i said so i’m a bit*h? and he said if i acted like one at that moment i deserve to be called that. he never called me that afterwards. but he did say to shut the f up and im f-in annoying a few more times. i never cursed at him nor called him names b/c i just had that respect. everyone raises their voice when they’re mad but he told me never to raise my voice. i tried to speak one time and he kept repeating “i’m the victim, i’m the victim over and over” while i was speaking so he didnt hear me. he said i’m mentally ill, i drive him away and i make him sick. he said he’s usually not like this to anyone and i bring this side of him out. i frustrate him so much.

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i ask him why he’s with me if i make him sick and i drive him away? and he said you’re right so he leaves me. but he calls me a week later and just plays with my emotions. i love him but he gives me a hard time. when we break up or he just leaves saying i make him sick, i try so hard to move on even though it’s hard. and then after a week or two of not calling he calls, i don’t pick up. he doesnt leave a message. then he doesnt call. what is he doing? playing games???? what do i do??? he told me i make him sick and i drove him away. last night he calls me a few times but doesnt leave a message. now he hasnt called and im looking at my phone. do i have to call him back? is he playing games with me? what is he doing??????????? plesse help me. i just turned off my phone b/c i kept looking at it thinking is he going to call. do i just move on?
also..he lies to me about talking to his ex-gf which i found out a different way. he said he did nothing wrong b/c nothing happened but he kept it a secret meeting her and talking to her. he tells me they dont talk anymore but i know they do. it’s been 2 days since we’ve broken up but seriously…what do i do? he’s playing games??

Gary

ola asked:


hve this friend.He is lovely and a lover of women.We had feelings 4 each other bt i told him i wanted to trust him and he said I couldnt,so I said no relationship til I cud.We stayed pals,tho not as close and I got on with things.He kept coming to me saying he had feelings bt also flirting with others and trying to make me jealous so I stayed away.One night I ask him why he is ignoring me..not a word to me on a staff night out and he explodes & says its always his fault etc.Wont talk to me for weeks.Next night out we are ok.Then totally out of character,he interupts me talking about this random woman and starts saying how much better looking she is than me.Staring straight in my face and getting more nasty as I dont react.I ask him why,he knows I care for him.He says to say that to him the next day,to come to him and say it.I dont as I am still hurt.He ignores me,flirts with younger women in front of me etcHe acts super happy around me,bt angry/down if he thks i cant c him.Why?

little one asked:


when bf drinks he gets mad and yells at me for our roomates,he breaks things such as the doors,cups and pics of us it happens every couple of weeks and when sober he wont talk about it we have together for 9 years and i dont know what to do i love him but at the same time i dont want to be with someone who is being distructive he has never hit me or anything like that he just gets mad and hits the wall or whatever is near

Jamie

KP asked:


me and my boyfriend been going together for 3 years now. i love him so much that i will give the shirt off my back. lately it seem like he does’nt care about me at all he say hurtful things to me like i’m the biggest slut in town (which i’m far from being a slut) he be little me, and then turn around and tell me he love me and we are going to get married. i feel like he took my self-esteem away and my confidence i wish he cared about me as much as i care about him

Gary

Truth Seeker 2020 asked:


It seems like any little bad thing there husband does, it is an excuse to leave them. I think it is terrible and is tearing families apart and the kids have to suffer. I believe the idea comes from the womens’ movements that started in the last century.

Jamie

metaltroll asked:

**I posted this video to show the quality of covers that slayer can produce. Verbal Abuse played this song back in the 80s and slayer covered it on Undisputed Attitude. Its an awesome cover and nothing like slayers music I know. But a great song in its own right and a great cover. So everyone stop whining. Slayer is an American thrash metal band, formed in 1981 by guitarists Jeff Hanneman and Kerry King. Slayer rose to fame as a leader of the American thrash metal movement with their 1986 …

Tyler

Robman275 asked:

Another music video with the song and album in the background that i knocked up in less than 5 mins. I have not seen this video anywhere so here it is. The Original Free Money by Verbal Abuse! Enjoy May i politly ask people don’t start the whole Slayer vs Verbal Abuse argument just because Slayer covered a few of their songs. I don’t mind discussion in that sense but not too much ok? thanks And no adverts or spam! Any comments of that nature WILL be deleted and the user blocked so help me …

Jamie

MIKIDOLL asked:


I was just wondering if anybody can tell me about what the bible says about devorcing a spouse due to verbal abuse? and can you tell me where i can find it in the bible?

Lyle

aking21926 asked:

For all the women..and men who are victims of verbal abuse.

Patrick

Michael Ehline asked:


When many of us hear of an elderly person being neglected, normally what comes to mind is the thought of physical abuse and the injuries that are sustained from this type of abuse. Physical abuse among the elderly unfortunately does happen way too often, however physical abuse and bodily injury is not the only type of abuse that our elderly can suffer from.

If one of your loved ones has become a victim and has suffered from any type of elderly abuse, your first move should be in retaining experienced attorneys who specialize in elderly abuse cases, the injuries that can be inflicted upon them, and wrongful death cases.

Types of abuse that many of our elderly have suffered from and become victim to year after year include:

Physical abuse and physical assault such as being physically hit, pushed or beaten, restrained, tortured and even deprived of food.

Neglect such as in being malnourished, dehydration, bedsores, or other types of ailments that would result from not being taken care of in a proper manner. Commonly known as bedsores, Decubitus ulcers are a pressure sore that is generally preventable and normally occur due to some type of neglect.

Financial abuse such as when another person has fraudulently or illegally taken money from an elderly person.

Attorney elder abuse such as dishonest attorneys deceiving the elderly into unknowingly signing over their entire savings to them.

Mental abuse such as intimidating an elderly person psychologically using confusion, fear or other means of mental abuse, as well as verbal abuse.

In many situations it is someone that we care about and trust who is the guilty party in inflicting these types of abuse upon our elderly family members or friends. If you were injured in a California city like Los Angeles, you should contact. IF it was OC, Orange County nursing home abuse lawyers. Nursing homes are also a very common place that elderly abuse can occur. Often times we put our complete trust in a nursing home for the care of our elderly, thinking they will receive the utmost in care and gentleness. It is heartbreaking when we learn those are the very people who are mistreating and abusing elderly patients.



Greg