AlexAsphyxia<3 asked:


my mom is constantly putting me down, and making me feel like sh it for everything i do. If i do something wrong, or miss something, she sits there and says stuff like “god you’re such a f uck up” or “i wish i never had you, i deserve better than this” “you can do anything right” “if you werent around everyhting would be ok and maybe your dad would have stayed with me if you werent born” [she was effin 37 when she had me, and he elft when i was 3 because he was a drug addict!] and she sits on the phone with my sister or grandma and bi tches about me and says stuff like ’shes such a fat ugly slob, i cant stand her, i need to do something, shes ruining my life” and she makes sure i hear it, cuz she only says it when i’m near her. she takes everything out on me because she’s a single mom. I’m so sick of her making me feel like crap, she thinks it doesn’t hurt me at all and it does…she makes me feel like i shouldnt be around and i’m just a waste of space. last summer i tried to commit suicide over 3 times.but i’ve been thinking about it alot again. this isnt some stupid attention seeking thing…i really feel this way….i got better for a while, i was a cutter, and my mom tells everyone that i use it agaisnt her and that she can’t do anything because i’d cut mysself for every little thing, which wasnt true, i’d only do it when i’d get so mad i couldnt take it. i can’t say what i want to say to her because i’d probobly get sent if i did… .idk what to do anymore…help…
No, i’m not good at talking to other adults….i can’t even talkt to my teachers. Only my friends, and they already know she’s psychotic. they all hate her too just because of what she does. my mom has threatened to kick me out so i can “go live with someone else so they can deal with my sh!t” and my best friend offered to take me in because her mom loves me, but if my mom turns her in she’ll get charged with taking in a run away, even if my mom kicked me out.

Steve

brownsugar asked:


you have some that do, how do they feel now that they are doing the same thing they said they wouldn’t do. I also would like to know how does the one feels that started the cycle of abuse, do they sit back and say look what I did and are proud of themselves or do they feel guilty. say for example it’s the grandmother, mother, and granddaughter they all are abuser How do they feel about one another?

Kerri

ola asked:


hve this friend.He is lovely and a lover of women.We had feelings 4 each other bt i told him i wanted to trust him and he said I couldnt,so I said no relationship til I cud.We stayed pals,tho not as close and I got on with things.He kept coming to me saying he had feelings bt also flirting with others and trying to make me jealous so I stayed away.One night I ask him why he is ignoring me..not a word to me on a staff night out and he explodes & says its always his fault etc.Wont talk to me for weeks.Next night out we are ok.Then totally out of character,he interupts me talking about this random woman and starts saying how much better looking she is than me.Staring straight in my face and getting more nasty as I dont react.I ask him why,he knows I care for him.He says to say that to him the next day,to come to him and say it.I dont as I am still hurt.He ignores me,flirts with younger women in front of me etcHe acts super happy around me,bt angry/down if he thks i cant c him.Why?

taybri2 asked:


My dh routinely tells me to f— off. When he is in a “bad” mood, he calls me names. I’ve put up with it for almost 15 yrs. Yesterday, however he “attacked” our 10 yr old dtr. She slammed a door. He told her if she did that again, he would slam her f—head in the f—door. My dtrs friend heard it, was scared and ended up calling her parents to pick her up. I did not find out about this until the next day. My husband offered to apologize to the friend and her family. How should I handle this?

Maxine

bleu asked:


my boyfriend who is 27 years old and i were fighting. he called me a b*tch. he told me to shut the fu*k up and i’m fu*king annoying. i told him never to say those things to me and he said everyone curses when they’re mad and he said i deserved to be called that at that moment. i said so i’m a bit*h? and he said if i acted like one at that moment i deserve to be called that. he never called me that afterwards. but he did say to shut the f up and im f-in annoying a few more times. i never cursed at him nor called him names b/c i just had that respect. everyone raises their voice when they’re mad but he told me never to raise my voice. i tried to speak one time and he kept repeating “i’m the victim, i’m the victim over and over” while i was speaking so he didnt hear me. he said i’m mentally ill, i drive him away and i make him sick. he said he’s usually not like this to anyone and i bring this side of him out. i frustrate him so much.

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ALSO, HE LEFT ME FOR HIS EX GF WHOM HE DATED FOR 5 YEARS. HE MET ME 7MONTHS LATER AND WE DATED FOR 1 YEAR AND 4 MONTHS. HE MAKES ME FEEL LIKE I’M THE ONE WITH THE PROBLEM SINCE HIS EX GF TOLD HIM SHE STILL LOVED HIM AND HE’S WITH HER NOW. IS THERE SOMETHING WRONG WITH ME? IS HE VERBALLY ABUSING ME? B/C IF HE WAS DOING THAT TO HER TOO THEN WHY DOES SHE STILL WANT HIM BACK? HE MAKES ME FEEL LIKE I’M THE ONE WITH THE PROBLEM. DOES HE DO THIS ONLY TO ME? THEN WHY DOES HIS EX GF TELL HIM SHE STILL LOVES HIM AND THEY’RE BACK TOGETHER? I’M SO HURT AND BETRAYED. HE JUST LEFT ME.
i ask him why he’s with me if i make him sick and i drive him away? and he said you’re right so he leaves me. but he calls me a week later and just plays with my emotions. i love him but he gives me a hard time. when we break up or he just leaves saying i make him sick, i try so hard to move on even though it’s hard. and then after a week or two of not calling he calls, i don’t pick up. he doesnt leave a message. then he doesnt call. what is he doing? playing games???? what do i do??? he told me i make him sick and i drove him away. last night he calls me a few times but doesnt leave a message. now he hasnt called and im looking at my phone. do i have to call him back? is he playing games with me? what is he doing??????????? plesse help me. i just turned off my phone b/c i kept looking at it thinking is he going to call. do i just move on?

Leighton

lesliebedford623 asked:


So…
I told my husband tonight that I wanted to seperate and that I thought it would be best for us if we were apart.Well, at first it went over ok, then **** hit the fan. Needless to say he is not happy about this! He said that I am giving up on him and that he needs my help, and I said that there is nothing for me to do, I have givin him all the help I can, but that the rest is up to him.
The thing is…like I said…I have been with him for 5 years, married almost 3 years. He started anti-depressents about 3 weeks ago, he says they arn’t strong enough, that he needs stronger. (he’s on effexor 70 MG) But, I have been the brunt of his unhappiness. I have been screamed at, have things thrown at me while Im holding the baby, been called names, he’s left all weekend to play “video games” at his friends house, he doesn’t take his pill on the weekend so he can drink, he’s threated to “pound my face into the wall”, “smash the cell phone through my face”, “i’m being a c***!”
Should I leave…? What should I do? I am now starting to feel guilty, like what if I leave and he has a mental breakdown? Please help me.

Greg

Pull_MyYakHair asked:


To go, please?

Bethany

little one asked:


when bf drinks he gets mad and yells at me for our roomates,he breaks things such as the doors,cups and pics of us it happens every couple of weeks and when sober he wont talk about it we have together for 9 years and i dont know what to do i love him but at the same time i dont want to be with someone who is being distructive he has never hit me or anything like that he just gets mad and hits the wall or whatever is near

Jamie

sunshine asked:


my boyfriend who is 27 years old and i were fighting. he called me a b*tch. he told me to shut the fu*k up and i’m fu*king annoying. i told him never to say those things to me and he said everyone curses when they’re mad and he said i deserved to be called that at that moment. i said so i’m a bit*h? and he said if i acted like one at that moment i deserve to be called that. he never called me that afterwards. but he did say to shut the f up and im f-in annoying a few more times. i never cursed at him nor called him names b/c i just had that respect. everyone raises their voice when they’re mad but he told me never to raise my voice. i tried to speak one time and he kept repeating “i’m the victim, i’m the victim over and over” while i was speaking so he didnt hear me. he said i’m mentally ill, i drive him away and i make him sick. he said he’s usually not like this to anyone and i bring this side of him out. i frustrate him so much.

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i ask him why he’s with me if i make him sick and i drive him away? and he said you’re right so he leaves me. but he calls me a week later and just plays with my emotions. i love him but he gives me a hard time. when we break up or he just leaves saying i make him sick, i try so hard to move on even though it’s hard. and then after a week or two of not calling he calls, i don’t pick up. he doesnt leave a message. then he doesnt call. what is he doing? playing games???? what do i do??? he told me i make him sick and i drove him away. last night he calls me a few times but doesnt leave a message. now he hasnt called and im looking at my phone. do i have to call him back? is he playing games with me? what is he doing??????????? plesse help me. i just turned off my phone b/c i kept looking at it thinking is he going to call. do i just move on?
also..he lies to me about talking to his ex-gf which i found out a different way. he said he did nothing wrong b/c nothing happened but he kept it a secret meeting her and talking to her. he tells me they dont talk anymore but i know they do. it’s been 2 days since we’ve broken up but seriously…what do i do? he’s playing games??

IS HE PLAYING GAMES, CALLING ME ONE NIGHT AND THEN DOESNT CALL ANYMORE???? SHAKING ME UP???

Vicki

KP asked:


me and my boyfriend been going together for 3 years now. i love him so much that i will give the shirt off my back. lately it seem like he does’nt care about me at all he say hurtful things to me like i’m the biggest slut in town (which i’m far from being a slut) he be little me, and then turn around and tell me he love me and we are going to get married. i feel like he took my self-esteem away and my confidence i wish he cared about me as much as i care about him

Gary