Is it emotional/verbal abuse if my fiance says I look annorexic when I actually always eat?
loca asked:
He tells me that I look annorexic when I wear a tight shirt because it makes my boobs stick out but my stomach look in. I don’t understand. I’m fit. I’m naturally skinny. I have abs, but you cannot see them with my shirt on of course. He has told me before this that I looked annorexic because he said I never ate, just because I never ate around him. It makes me feel like crap, and I feel as though I cannot wear tight clothes around him. I do eat all the time. I see him about twice a week. How does that justify how much I eat.
Harrison
He tells me that I look annorexic when I wear a tight shirt because it makes my boobs stick out but my stomach look in. I don’t understand. I’m fit. I’m naturally skinny. I have abs, but you cannot see them with my shirt on of course. He has told me before this that I looked annorexic because he said I never ate, just because I never ate around him. It makes me feel like crap, and I feel as though I cannot wear tight clothes around him. I do eat all the time. I see him about twice a week. How does that justify how much I eat.
Harrison
June 18th, 2009 at 4:54 am
Louise
dont change your self for him
try talking to him about it..tell him it hurts your feelings..if he continues to do it.
dump him
you are only engaged ..so you CAN get out of it.
plus, theres more (nicer) fish in the sea.
good luck
June 20th, 2009 at 3:04 pm
gwyneth
Simple: Tell him to go and date Moby Dick.